I did not fully grasp this lesson at the moment. I caught what the camera did not, the look of love and satisfaction on Xavier’s (Mario’s Oldest Brother) face as he lowered Mario’s bandanna to just above his tiny glasses. Mario stared back into his brother’s face with a joyful playfulness this photo belies. Mario’s […]

I struggled for 30 years in conversations that escalated into full-blown confrontations. How? I didthis by beginning with my opinion and once I formed it, I held steadfast to it. I spent theremainder of the time defending my opinion and little time solving anything of meaning. Mywife of 34 years will attest to the very […]